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Advice - Your Rope

Managing Chronic Fatigue In Rope

As a person with Post Covid19 Syndrome (Long Covid), fatigue is one of my main symptoms that has left a prolonged impact on my daily life. It’s affected my ability to do basic actions, work, play and engage with other people. It is very similar to other post viral conditions like CFS/ME, POTS, Lyme disease […]

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Advice - Relationships

Getting Aftercare Right

Aftercare refers to the care we provide to ourselves and to our partners with after playing with them. Top, bottom, switch, dominant, submissive, whatever, we are all entitled to be looked after in the moments after the scene and during the dropping part of the process which can last for up to a few days. […]

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Advice - Relationships

When (Vanilla) Poly People Seek Kink

I wrote a status update a couple of days ago on social media, a thought about how vanilla people don’t understand that kink relationships are still relationships. They are. My relationships with my partners vary HUGELY, but they are meaningful to me in different ways. I’m poly and kinky, which isn’t vanilla at all! So, […]