People can do as they choose. They can take whatever risks they want, and need to make themselves aware of those risks amd mitigate them accordingly. They can negotiate whatever scene they like, so long as they have the mutual trust and strong communication skills they need to do so. They can be motivated for […]
When we first join rope and kink spaces, we often feel very nervous. We don’t know what to expect nor how the people we meet may respond to us. We seek validation and acceptance of who we are, and perhaps people to play with. We often want to learn about the lifestyle and issues around […]
I’m writing this as an events organiser and facilitator. I write this as someone who has been active on my local scene for six and a half years… I remember joining my local community to find friends and a potential partner. I wanted to connect with like minded people and have fun. I read books […]