About Me

Welcome to my rope blog! A place for me to express myself, sharing my art and information on how I practice rope safely and ethically. I am passionate about tackling abuse and promoting healthy kink practices and relationships in kink and rope spaces. I run my own classes and have published two kink focused books (see below).

Rope is something I stumbled across quite by accident, but very quickly fell in love with. I am very fortunate to have several rope partners who model for me on a regular basis. Also, I self tie – initially to help with rigging others, but have found great fulfillment in self tying itself.

I have gained lots of experience over the past 9 years or so since I first started, and enjoy how it enhances my life and that of others. Over the last 6 years, my skills in the aerial side of rope has developed greatly, largely due to my self tying and having wonderful friends to work with. To me, it’s a creative outlet, a way to express a deeper sense of self, to find pleasure in something that can be physically and mentally challenging. For my art, I was awarded recognition as the Best Newcomer and a Best Self Tier at the PGLA annual awards in 2021.

Rope has taught me an awful lot about myself and other people. It has helped me focus on building personal physical fitness and mental focus, to be able to create and sustain shapes and dynamic ties. It has taught me to be patient and mindful of the needs of others. It has enabled me to forge strong, meaningful connections with those I tie.

So, welcome to this journey into my greatest passion, rope. Enjoy!

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All the content on here is free to access. Feel free to subscribe and I’ll send you emails of new posts I create. If you’d like to support my work, then please buy my books, attend my classes and/or donate to PayPal deanexashibari@gmail.com or CashApp ¬£DeaNexaShibari as much as you feel you can.

I am a qualified professional wellbeing and strategy coach and offer kink-aware personal coaching.My coaching website is www.nexacoaching.com. I also advocate for racial inclusion in kink spaces and provide consulting in this feild and have done so internationally. If you would like to hire me as your coach or for consultation purposes, please email deanexashibari@gmail.com

My books:

My Classes

I am available to teach in person and online. For full details of my classes, follow the link:


Social Media

You can also find further art work and details of my classes on Instagram https://instagram.com/dea_nexa

and on Fetlife https://fetlife.com/users/7480102

All artwork is produce by me. Credit given elsewhere where that is not the case. All content is the intellectual property of Dea Nexa. Reproduction of all or any part of this website is strictly prohibited.