Month: January 2020

I’ve often heard people refer to rope as a therapy, and I’ve even been called a therapist as a rigger. But that isn’t how this lifestyle works, not really. Therapy is to process trauma. You’ve experienced a traumatic event and feel stuck and it impacts on your life. You need help to get unstuck, so […]

Ageism isn’t acceptable. If you meet someone and they say “I’ve been doing this for years/decades”, that doesn’t mean they’re safe. If you meet an older kinkster and they say “My age means I have better life experience!” they’re not necessarily safe. If you meet someone and they say “You’re better off with us younger […]